I told him I am not comfortable with it cos he is my ex's best friend, so my ex will feel kind of betrayed if he finds out and that I don't want to be the subject of a break in their friendship tide. I mean, we've heard the charming phrases like "bros before hos" and "chicks over dicks" so frequently that the notion is ingrained into our minds: Don't date your ex's buddy and don't date your friend's ex. Without rhyme, reason, logic and common sense, we often find ourselves inexplicably attracted to someone. True friendship and true love are both elusive the key is trying to get them both!
If the chemistry is explosive and undeniable, it may be worth the risk. If you were the one who took out the garbage, you might want to go about this is a very. manner so as not to induce window breaking from your ex. The lover in question might not be worth causing a rift in your friendship. Sometimes people date the ex's friend as a form of retaliation. Except, of course, that stinking jerk who dumped you. —Ask The forbidden fruit always looks juicy and delicious (insert Eden pun here) but not all that glitters is gold.It takes a while to get over someone you really cared about.But because you have these lingering feelings, I would suggest staying single and doing your own thing for a little while.