One thing people often tell me is that I am diplomatic.
It has actually been suggested that I get into politics (more than once), but I think I like writing better. ” Instead of “You never make me feel…” try “I don’t usually feel…” The idea here is to lighten the burden of whatever message you are trying to get across and even take responsibility for it.
"WHAT YOU HEAR: "My job's in jeopardy and I didn't even bother to tell you."WHAT HE MEANS: "I didn't want to worry you." Don't take his "forgetting" to fill you in on his job situation too personally.
Most men don't like to advertise their fears or what they might perceive as weaknesses--especially to the person they feel they need to protect (that's you).
Relationships are one of the first things that all of us take for granted. But yet, we forget how much something really matters to us when we don’t stand to lose it.
And it usually takes losing something to realize its importance and value.
Janet Hibbs, a psychologist, couples therapist and author of , says there's hope as long as you're willing to adjust your "filter"--a.k.a.
What you can do instead, is eliminate the frustration as soon as you notice them. At the start of the relationship, conversations are exciting and fun.
Both of you spend a lot of time getting to know each other.
But almost always, all problems in a relationship find their place in ten big areas.
At some point or the other, these problems have a way of creeping into your romance.