As a man who have some experience of dating Chinese girls, I am often asked what a guy should and shouldn’t do on a date with a Chinese girl.
To cater to the mass requirements, I summarize the do’s and don’ts of dating a Chinese female, which should be helpful for most of you. Be polite and gentle on the first few dates before she shows the real her to you.
In truth, understanding the cultural perspective that she's received from her parents and had reinforced by the Chinese community surrounding her, is quite important.
It can be the difference between her making a physical-emotional commitment or not.
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Follow him on Twitter and Facebook “Once you date an Asian girl, you will never go back.” Men often hear something similar to this from other men who have dated Asian women, meaning women directly from Asia, not American women of Asian descent.
It could be that she has had no chance to practice. Please give her a chance to learn the Western way on timing and booking. In a date, men are expected to pay for dinners, shows, and other expenses. Chinese ladies show their feelings in an elegant and indirect way. Asking about people’s health and looking after him/her when he/she is unwell is one of the important ways to show your concern and love to him/her.
Asian and Chinese cultures are the products of their history.It's a rare Chinese woman that likes the 'rough and ready' or grunge look.They get this from the Chinese mainland's culture (including the ones not even born there! In mainland China it's pretty much only garbage men, farmers and poor artists that maintain facial hair.Although being caucasian myself, I grew up around a great deal of Chinese women in my own native country and even though I have spent the last eight years living in mainland China I am still surprised at how many Chinese women born in America and Canada still retain a certain amount of cultural conditioning that affects their dating choices similar to mainland Chinese, and this also affects the kind of men they are attracted to.I get quite a few emails from guys dating Chinese women in America and Canada, and one of their biggest fears, apart from how to attract her, is that they will make a mistake in the dating process and really mess up their chances.